(RCM) Relationship Consultant/Mentor
(50 hours / 7 days)
📅 Time: 9:30 a.m. – 5:30 p.m.
📍 Location: Available in-person and online
📧 Contact: ihha.ca@gmail.com
Prerequisites: Open to everyone. Completing the (BH) Self-Discovery Course is recommended for all.
💰 Fee: 700.00 CAD (+ 75.00 CAD for certification)
Upon completion of the course, participants will be awarded the RELATIONSHIP CONSULTANT title and receive a certificate.
Accredited Specialized Course
Approved by:
- International Medical and Dental Hypnotherapy Association
- International Association of Counselors & Therapists
A relationship consultant is a professional who helps couples resolve their relationship issues and improve their communication and cooperation. They are typically psychologists or counseling professionals specializing in areas such as partner selection, conflict resolution, intimacy, and similar topics.
During consultations, they assist individuals and couples in setting goals, understanding emotional dynamics, and finding effective communication and conflict resolution strategies. Their primary focus is on strengthening and stabilizing relationships, but they also provide support in cases where separation or divorce appears inevitable.
About the Course
- Open to everyone; no prerequisites required.
- A comprehensive workshop for addressing relationship challenges.
- Participants will learn about personal relationship values and how they develop.
- Training includes methods for restoring seemingly lost relationships and marriages, considering both male and female perspectives.
- Covers personality development and provides a clear understanding of different personality disorders.
By the end of the training, relationship consultants will have a structured, step-by-step program to support their clients effectively.
🔹 The 550-page course material includes: (just a small preview of the extensive content)
Course Outline
Attila János Kun’s course combining psychology and relationship counselling elements of comprehensive exploration of various therapeutic modalities and theoretical frameworks. Here’s how each component might contribute to the course:
How Our Relationship System Developed
- Personality Disorders
- Child Abuse and Its Impact on Our Lives
- Childhood Trauma in Marriage and Relationships
- Codependent and Dependent Relationships
- Attachment Disorders
- Trauma Treatment
- The Development of Emotions and Their Biology
- The Brain and Nervous System
- Why Marriages Fall Apart
- Conflict Resolution
- Relationship Rules
- How to Fix Relationships
- Healing Childhood Traumas
- Understanding Our Mental Codes (Why We Get Stuck in Suffering)
- Subconscious Relationship Games
- Love and Its Biochemistry
- Sternberg’s Theory of Love
- Understanding Our Own Love and the Love of Others
- ASPD – A Complete Analysis of All Types of Narcissism
- Borderline and Bipolar Personality Disorders
- Cognitive Dissonance and Distortions
- The Biggest Mistakes Men and Women Make in Relationships
- The Power of Thoughts – Fear Factors
- Love Meditations
THERE ARE MANY REASONS WHY RELATIONSHIPS CAN FAIL
- Communication Problems: If partners cannot communicate effectively, misunderstandings, conflicts, and feelings of isolation can easily arise.
- Conflicts and Arguments: Conflicts are normal and inevitable in relationships, but if they are not handled properly, they can severely damage the relationship.
- Lack of Trust: Trust is fundamental in relationships. Constant doubt or betrayal can lead to significant problems.
- Loss of Interest: If partners no longer invest energy and attention in their relationship or prioritize other things over their time together, it can seriously harm the relationship in the long run.
- Incompatible Goals and Values: If partners do not align on important aspects of life (such as family planning, finances, or career), it can create tension and conflicts over time.
- Lack of Intimacy: Maintaining emotional and physical intimacy is crucial. If this is missing or weakens, it can have serious consequences.
- External Stress Factors: External factors such as work stress, financial difficulties, or family problems can negatively impact the relationship.
These are just a few examples of why a relationship may break down. Usually, a combination of one or more of these factors leads to the deterioration or end of the relationship.
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Activities of a Relationship Mentor
Improving Communication:
- Helps couples understand each other better and communicate more effectively.
- Teaches techniques for active listening and empathetic responses.
Conflict Resolution:
- Assists couples in recognizing and understanding the sources of their conflicts.
- Teaches strategies and techniques for resolving conflicts peacefully and effectively.
Strengthening Intimacy and Attachment:
- Helps couples rebuild and strengthen intimacy and trust.
- Supports couples in rediscovering and renewing the romantic and emotional aspects of their relationship.
Aligning Goals and Values:
- Helps couples set shared goals and align their values.
- Supports them in creating a shared vision for their future.
Building Self-Confidence and Self-Awareness:
- Helps individuals better understand themselves and boost their self-confidence.
- Encourages self-reflection and personal growth, contributing to an improved relationship.
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Methods and Tools
Counseling and Discussions:
- Individual or couples counseling sessions to discuss relationship issues and challenges.
- Structured conversations aimed at identifying and solving problems.
Interactive Exercises:
- Various exercises and activities designed to improve communication and cooperation.
- Playful or situational exercises that help couples understand each other better.
Psychological Modalities such as Schema Therapy, Gestalt, CBT, EFT, Hypnotherapy, and Analytical Hypnosis:
- Personality tests and other psychological tools to enhance self-awareness for individuals and couples.
- Therapeutic techniques such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).
Educational Materials and Resources:
- Books, articles, and other materials to support learning and personal growth.
- Online courses and educational content providing additional guidance and support.
Results and Benefits
- Improved Communication: Couples will be able to communicate more effectively and understand each other better.
- Conflict Resolution: Couples will learn how to manage and resolve conflicts peacefully and efficiently.
- Stronger Bonding: Emotional and physical connections between partners will be strengthened, leading to a more sustainable relationship.
- Self-Confidence and Self-Awareness: Individuals will gain a deeper understanding of themselves and boost their confidence, positively impacting their relationships.
Attila János Kun
Psychology, Hypnotherapy Nutrition, Diet and Health Science, Honoured Member of Delta Epsilon Tau Society,